The law of attraction is a concept of manifesting the true desires of your heart through the process of using your energy/vibration to attract that very thing you want into your experience. Now for those of you who are not familiar with the steps to the law of attraction or just need a quick reminder, I’ll give you a quick reference although, I will be focusing on one in particular for this blog.
Raising your vibration to that of peace, happiness, and abundance- seems pretty easy to obtain and it is, but it’s hard to maintain. The reason being is that we spend a lot of our human experience doing things that make us feel the opposite of peace and happiness. We go to jobs we hate with co-workers we don’t like- working towards someone else’s vision that we could care less about while our own aspirations take a backseat. Or, if you’re like me and have family/ friends that add to your stress by just being themselves and getting on the last working nerve you have left, then you already know what I’m talking about. And, honestly simply the thought of not being where you want to be can be quite dreadful.
Now the reason why I want to drive home the importance of raising your vibration and maintaining it is because you can desire whatever you want. You can visualize it, act as though, you can even use words of affirmation, hell you can believe you’ll receive it. But if you feel frustrated, angry, defeated, or even sad. You’re getting farther and farther away from your desires. Remember the universe responds to energy. So, every other step you attempt in the law of attraction will be futile. Reason being- like attracts like. So, if you’re feeling low vibrational emotions that’s exactly what you’ll receive. Your desires don’t align with low vibration. Think of it like this, if ever you’re not feeling your optimum self at any moment- for any given reason, ask yourself :
“Is this what it would feel like living my desires?”
“Does this emotion align with my desires?”
Be mindful of the bigger picture. Keep in mind that creation only takes place in the present, every thought or emotion you experience in your present moment adds to your creation. To sum this up, if you’ve been trying to manifest your desires for some time and haven’t had any luck, check your emotions; they are the GPS to your desires. You can literally feel your way to your desires. You can feel great on the way to what you do want; or you can feel conflicted on your way to what you don’t want. The choice is yours. I hope this little bit of insight will be of assistance to those on the journey to their desires. I will be posting a follow- up blog on how to feel good on the journey to your manifestations. Happiness is a choice and you can choose it regardless of the experience.
Author: Angel Aura
Spiritual Teacher. Healer Facilitator. Manifestation Coach
All realities exist in this present moment.
That’s right. Creation is taking place right now. Your dominant thoughts, feelings and speech is creating what you will experience in the “future”. You have the power to re-create your past or to create something totally new. Something you truly desire. Either way it’s not going to happen tomorrow; it’s happening right now.
You ever wonder why you experience the same things or type of people over and over? How years can go by and your life is still stuck in this same cycle? That these same experiences just seem to keep haunting you although you desire something else? Welp, keep reading and you’ll find out why.
Our thoughts and feelings are way more powerful than we’ve been taught to believe. Thanks to western society, it has failed us in this aspect. We’re mostly taught about our external reality, the things we can physically touch, taste, see and smell. We’re taught how to acquire physical things. But we haven’t been taught how to nurture our internal processes or the immense amount of creative energy we possess through our thoughts and feelings.
As a matter of fact that’s how all creation takes place. We think that our reality perpetuates our beliefs but really it’s the other way around. Everything was once pure energy, a thought, an idea, a feeling; and then it manifested into something tangible. What was a bed before it was a bed? An idea. How do you know when you’re hungry? Through feeling. How did you come up with that idea? Through a thought. You catch my drift? Once you understand this principle you’re one step ahead of the game.
So, in knowing this you can start to see how our thoughts and feelings shape our reality. We’re thinking and feeling all day everyday and this is how you’re always creating in the now moment. Everything comes through as a thought or feeling first, and then some sort of action is taken. This is the full manifestation process of your current reality.
“Everything comes through as a thought or feeling first, and then some sort of action is taken.”
As I mentioned earlier, you’re reality is created by your dominant thoughts and feelings. So let’s create a scenario of how we can continuously bring our past into our present or how we can create a new and better future. Money is a big subject so let’s go there.
You desire more money but you’ve always lived paycheck to paycheck. The bills were coming in faster than the money. You feel nervous and anxious every time you check your bank account…..but you desire more money. So your dominant thoughts are focused upon lack and how you never have enough and thinking of money gives you anxiety and makes you feel stressed. Because in essence you create through your thoughts and feelings, this is the dominant signal you’re sending out to the universe. And because the universe loves you so much and answers all prayers, this is what you keep getting back. This is the beauty and the curse of the universe. It sees no right or wrong, good or bad. It only operates off of energy and vibration. So when you feel that the universe is blessing you or punishing you; it’s not. It’s simply responding to your vibration.
Many may discredit this super power. People will make comments such as “Really? Just change my thoughts and it’ll change my reality? Can’t be that simple.” But have you ever really tried to change your thoughts. And I don’t mean just for the moment, I mean changing it and keeping up with that new thought until it produces a shift in your life? Shits not so easy. But it’s not our fault. Our culture has taught us that we must be forceful and controlling of our external circumstances instead of making the shift within our self FIRST.
Take myself for example. It took me a long time to grasp this but once I did the fog was lifted and it made perfect sense. It just took a moment (well…alot of moments) of me really sitting with myself and examining my life and what I was experiencing. I pondered all of my thoughts and beliefs around money, relationships, business and a ton of other things and I saw the common thread. I had not so good thoughts and feelings about these things hence the reason why I wasn’t creating anything new in my life. Just the same ole same ole. And I was tired of the same ole same ole. I had new desires born inside of me and I was ready to experience those things. That’s when I started the journey of rewiring my subconscious mind by consciously reprogramming my thoughts to fit the reality I wanted.
And just let me note that this takes alot of conscious effort. There will be times when you backslide which is normal because you’ve probably been being this old version of you for many many years, so it’s going to take some time to get use to the new you with these bomb ass thoughts and feelings ;). This is when self-awareness will become your best friend. You will need to be aware of your thoughts so you can stop them once they start going down that slippery slope of doom and replace it with your new and improved thought. The quicker you can stop the thought the better.
So you may be saying “but I really really want more money” or “I really want to find true love” or “I really want the job of my dreams”. But unless you align yourself with that energetically, meaning through your thoughts and feelings, it’s going to be a long time coming before you get it. And I’m not saying this to dampen your spirit. I’m saying this to empower you to dig deep within yourself to discover your core thoughts about any particular subject.
I’ll give you a little assignment. Find some free time to be able to just sit with you, your thoughts and your desires; no distractions. Really pay attention to how your thoughts are connected to what you are experiencing in your life. Pick one thing that you would really love to see change in your life. Write it down on a piece of paper or laptop or whatever. Then write down how you truly feel and think about that thing. This is kind of the hard part because many people don’t like to tell the truth of how they really feel but it is a must if you want to shift your reality and more importantly your inner self. So if you want to start a business write that down. And if you truly feel what’s holding you back is the thought that I’m not good enough or if I do I fear it won’t be successful; then write that down too.
This exercise will give you a clear view of what your dominant thoughts and feelings are. Once you are aware of this you can then create new thoughts that align with what you desire. Now here’s another tricky part, the new thoughts you create must produce a FEELING in you. So for instance if you create a new thought that says “I have more than enough money to start my business” and you feel nothing or that thought still makes you feel a bit anxious because of your current financial status; than maybe a better thought would be “The universe will provide everything I need for this business” of “The universe will guide me to the right people to help me build my business.” A thought more along those lines may make feel at ease and comfortable. That’s what you want.
By practicing these new thoughts and feelings in the now moment, you’ll begin to shift your reality. You have to give yourself enough time to build up this new momentum, so don’t kick yourself if you don’t see immediate results. Another golden nugget; don’t speak on these things as you’ve done in the past. Either don’t talk about it to others until you feel comfortable or if you do, speak on it from your new place of being. Speak on it with enthusiasm, excitement and assurance; not from a place of fear, doubt or worry.
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Spiritual Teacher. Healer Facilitator. Alignment Coach
Why I wanted to start living unconditionally?
Because I got damn tired of being on an emotional rollercoaster.
That’s right. The emotional ups and downs that we suffer from on a daily basis come from *drum roll please * CONDITIONS!
We are surrounded by conditions everyday allday. What’s going on with our family, our spouse, our business, our job, traffic, our kids, the lines in the supermarket. Conditions, conditions conditions! All of these and then some are situations that can disrupt our inner peace. We hear alot about unconditional love, but what about unconditional happiness? Unconditional peace? Unconditional joy?
After listening to countless Esther Hicks videos it finally clicked that I had to become unconditional in all that I do if I want to maintain my alignment with my inner Source AND live a unconditionally fulfilling life. I don’t know about any of you but for me that emotional rollercoaster is capital D-R-A-I-N-I-N-G. You can go through so many highs and lows emotionally in one day that it’ll leave your head spinning.
I’m not a master at this yet but I have come along way in a short amount of time. I would say in the last two months I’ve been feeling my best despite anything that have been going on around me. I’m getting a pretty good handle on it. Now let me let you in on another really really reallyyyyy good reason why you may want to try living the unconditional lifestyle.
As I stated previously, by living unconditionally you can maintain your connection to your inner Source/God/The Universe; whatever you wish to call it. So by doing that, you become a more open valve to receive all kinds of inspired ideas, your energy is higher, things start to manifest easier in your life and guess what? Many of those conditions that would’ve caused you emotional upset tend to transform right before your eyes!
You see we’ve been taught backwards. We’ve been taught to be conditional, forceful and controlling of our external environments, which ends up sucking the life right out of you. But when you learn the art of detachment and withdraw all of your energy and power back within yourself you then become the influencer of your environment instead of the influenced. And things start to just fix themselves.
Ok so listen, let me give you a quick example. I have road rage. I tried to deny it but aye, it is what it is. You can’t heal what you don’t reveal right? So anyway, I was in my car and got on the beltway and it was so backed up that my 30 minute drive was supposed to take me an hour. Now initially I would’ve been irritated and fussing the whole ride; but not this time. I calmed down, turned on some of my favorite music and continuously told myself that the great thing about this was that I wouldn’t be in traffic forever. About 15 minutes into my drive, traffic magically cleared up. I was smooth sailing and my 30 minute drive only ended up being 45 minutes. I have no doubt it was because I let go of that conditional frustrating energy and just allowed myself to be in the moment, accept it for what it was and made the best of it. The universe is pretty amazing isn’t it? Just imagine the miraculous things that’ll take place in your life once you’re able to maintain this type of energy.
So just try it out, I promise you won’t regret it. I have plenty more to share on this subject so I’m sure there will be a part 2 to this post. I also have a bunch of tips on how you can start living the most fulfilling unconditional life only one can imagine. Just shoot me an email at firstname.lastname@example.org so we can talk about it. Ciào!
Spiritual Teacher. Healer Facilitator. Alignment Coach.
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Spiritual Teacher. Healer Facilitator. Alignment Coach.